While I proclaim to be a ridem', suckem', fuckem' kinda gal, I do love sex in slow gentle motions as well. Sex is perceived in a multitude of ways. I have met with many styles of sexual encounters over my short lifetime. I know I can't possibly cover all possible scenarios and styles, but here is my semi-short list:
High School Sex: Remember when you were back in high school and your sexual encounters were filled with tons of making out and cuddling? This was a time when you attempted to create the 'making love' scenario, but weren't really mentally there yet. The sex was generally quick and sometimes awkward, but in the end you both felt exhilarated about the event that had just occured. Sometimes I want to go back to high school style sex. Begin by kissing, totally clothed, rubbing each other through the fabric that stands between us and slowly undress each other like its the very first time discovering a new persons body. Those first moments are so exciting.
Boyfriend/Girlfriend Sex: When you are in a relationship that has the potential of being long-term the style of sex sometimes falls into a pattern of discovering what each of you likes, desires, and demands. Your significant other is still learning to be intune with your sexual needs so experimentation is at its peak in this style of sex. Love may have arrived for you or it may still be on the horizon, so the actual act of making love may not have been achieved just yet. It's still just sex.
Quickie Sex: For some, many times sex is something used for a fast fix for some type of stress relief. Sometimes stress will drive people to pound out their frustrations and emotions on others. Often this act results in a fast fix that is sort of like releasing air from a ballon. You are hyped up, expanding with pressure and then suddenly the air is let out and you release. The orgasm from a quickie is usually pretty intense. I wouldn't shy away from this type of sex. Many times it's just enough to get you through the day.
Sloppy Drunk Sex: After one too many drinks you decide that you can't wait another moment to have caranal knowledge of this person you have been drinking with all evening. The problem here is that alcohol will desensitize you and make sex less enjoyable. Additionally, if you are a lightweight like me, a few too many drinks and frequent position changes will make your dizzy brain nauseous. Alcohol coupled with whisky dick and a queezy stomach makes this type of sex better to just stay away from.
Swinger Sex: Sex with strangers is ultra exciting. Even though you may know his or her name and spent a few hours at a bar, the person is still virtually a stranger. The excitement of swinger sex is like the first time all over again. The first kiss, the first touch, the first penetration with someone new. If you have never experienced this (except the one time), you may not completly understand the feelings this evokes. This common understanding among swingers is what makes the level of sexual intensity so much higher in the moment.
By Rebecca Ammon
High School Sex: Remember when you were back in high school and your sexual encounters were filled with tons of making out and cuddling? This was a time when you attempted to create the 'making love' scenario, but weren't really mentally there yet. The sex was generally quick and sometimes awkward, but in the end you both felt exhilarated about the event that had just occured. Sometimes I want to go back to high school style sex. Begin by kissing, totally clothed, rubbing each other through the fabric that stands between us and slowly undress each other like its the very first time discovering a new persons body. Those first moments are so exciting.
Boyfriend/Girlfriend Sex: When you are in a relationship that has the potential of being long-term the style of sex sometimes falls into a pattern of discovering what each of you likes, desires, and demands. Your significant other is still learning to be intune with your sexual needs so experimentation is at its peak in this style of sex. Love may have arrived for you or it may still be on the horizon, so the actual act of making love may not have been achieved just yet. It's still just sex.
Quickie Sex: For some, many times sex is something used for a fast fix for some type of stress relief. Sometimes stress will drive people to pound out their frustrations and emotions on others. Often this act results in a fast fix that is sort of like releasing air from a ballon. You are hyped up, expanding with pressure and then suddenly the air is let out and you release. The orgasm from a quickie is usually pretty intense. I wouldn't shy away from this type of sex. Many times it's just enough to get you through the day.
Sloppy Drunk Sex: After one too many drinks you decide that you can't wait another moment to have caranal knowledge of this person you have been drinking with all evening. The problem here is that alcohol will desensitize you and make sex less enjoyable. Additionally, if you are a lightweight like me, a few too many drinks and frequent position changes will make your dizzy brain nauseous. Alcohol coupled with whisky dick and a queezy stomach makes this type of sex better to just stay away from.
Swinger Sex: Sex with strangers is ultra exciting. Even though you may know his or her name and spent a few hours at a bar, the person is still virtually a stranger. The excitement of swinger sex is like the first time all over again. The first kiss, the first touch, the first penetration with someone new. If you have never experienced this (except the one time), you may not completly understand the feelings this evokes. This common understanding among swingers is what makes the level of sexual intensity so much higher in the moment.
By Rebecca Ammon
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